<?xml version='1.0' encoding='UTF-8'?><?xml-stylesheet href="http://www.blogger.com/styles/atom.css" type="text/css"?><feed xmlns='http://www.w3.org/2005/Atom' xmlns:openSearch='http://a9.com/-/spec/opensearchrss/1.0/'><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-16929714.post7419753360721941007..comments</id><updated>2009-04-14T10:35:16.115-07:00</updated><title type='text'>Comments on No Rest for the Wicked: To My Friends in California</title><link rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#feed' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://christophergolden.blogspot.com/feeds/7419753360721941007/comments/default'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/16929714/7419753360721941007/comments/default'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://christophergolden.blogspot.com/2008/10/to-my-friends-in-california.html'/><author><name>Christopher Golden</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/01685300049610588951</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email></author><generator version='7.00' uri='http://www.blogger.com'>Blogger</generator><openSearch:totalResults>4</openSearch:totalResults><openSearch:startIndex>1</openSearch:startIndex><openSearch:itemsPerPage>25</openSearch:itemsPerPage><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-16929714.post-7991245795310154493</id><published>2008-10-25T07:05:00.000-07:00</published><updated>2008-10-25T07:05:00.000-07:00</updated><title type='text'>"Anonymous"...there are a number of things I'd arg...</title><content type='html'>"Anonymous"...there are a number of things I'd argue about in your post, but since this thread is about marriage, I'll restrict it to that.  One of the fundamental tenets of the United States of America is the separation of church and state.  Thus, MARRIAGE, as far as the government is concerned (and that *is* what we're talking about here) is NEITHER a ritual nor consecrated. It is NOT sacred.  When you go to get your marriage license, it is a legal document.  Does the wedding of Muslims or Jews "mess" with marriage?  By your logic, it should, since their marriage is not following the same sacred, consecrated rituals as yours.  I'm not drawing a religious comparison.  My point is that, regardless of your beliefs, the only marriage recognized by the government is a LEGAL marriage.  The government doesn't care what kind of ritual or ceremony accompanies your marriage, as long as it's legal.  So your argument that marriage is too sacred etc. to allow gay people access to it is completely empty.  They're not asking for the same religions that discriminate against them and preach intolerance to bless their marriages.  They're simply asking for the same LEGAL rights as everyone else.  Two entirely different things.</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/16929714/7419753360721941007/comments/default/7991245795310154493'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/16929714/7419753360721941007/comments/default/7991245795310154493'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://christophergolden.blogspot.com/2008/10/to-my-friends-in-california.html?showComment=1224943500000#c7991245795310154493' title=''/><author><name>Christopher Golden</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/01685300049610588951</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='OpenSocialUserId' value='15325691210644529336'/></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://christophergolden.blogspot.com/2008/10/to-my-friends-in-california.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-16929714.post-7419753360721941007' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/16929714/posts/default/7419753360721941007' type='text/html'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-16929714.post-7751028032736173877</id><published>2008-10-25T06:44:00.000-07:00</published><updated>2008-10-25T06:44:00.000-07:00</updated><title type='text'>The fact that you post this under 'anonymous' spea...</title><content type='html'>The fact that you post this under 'anonymous' speaks volumes.</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/16929714/7419753360721941007/comments/default/7751028032736173877'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/16929714/7419753360721941007/comments/default/7751028032736173877'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://christophergolden.blogspot.com/2008/10/to-my-friends-in-california.html?showComment=1224942240000#c7751028032736173877' title=''/><author><name>Tim</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/00025532995021353697</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://christophergolden.blogspot.com/2008/10/to-my-friends-in-california.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-16929714.post-7419753360721941007' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/16929714/posts/default/7419753360721941007' type='text/html'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-16929714.post-5734884963908769929</id><published>2008-10-23T18:32:00.000-07:00</published><updated>2008-10-23T18:32:00.000-07:00</updated><title type='text'>i respect your opinion, and i think you have a poi...</title><content type='html'>i respect your opinion, and i think you have a point about not hating but loving, but im still against gay marriage. don't misunderstand me, im no homophobe and even have a bisexual friend, but i believe that marriage is sacred and, like everything else in this world, follows a set of rules. and personally, i dont get how someone can physically be one gender, and emotionaly another. it's just something i've never been able to accept. but i would never take away the rights of a gay person, but i just think marriage is too consencrated of a ritual to mess with.&lt;BR/&gt;and i do not hate homosexuals.</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/16929714/7419753360721941007/comments/default/5734884963908769929'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/16929714/7419753360721941007/comments/default/5734884963908769929'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://christophergolden.blogspot.com/2008/10/to-my-friends-in-california.html?showComment=1224811920000#c5734884963908769929' title=''/><author><name>Anonymous</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' 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